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Originally Posted by JaGo
Perhaps you can give an ultimatum. It's either you or him. It's not fair to have to be strung along while she is dating her boyfriend off and on. I know she is going through a hard time but it's causing you stress so she needs to make a decision.
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Easier said than done. She knows that its not fair. She is in pain as well. It's worse than that though - they are now engaged - so I'm the idiot here! (closer in age, immediate availability, social acceptance etc. etc. all very logical)
Neither of us can find a reasonable (non-extreme) permanent solution. See answer below to "Bill3" for more details.