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Originally Posted by Achy Turtle Armor
Ok. No one has any input. That's fine. I don't think I'd know what to tell me either.
Everything felt normal after I told my friend about my crush on her. Just before I left work I told her, "I feel stupid." She asked why. I told her because of what I said earlier. She said, "Is it true?" I said, "Yes." She said, "Then you don't need to feel stupid. We're good friends Honey." Then she said something about it not changing the nature of our friendship. I smiled and said, "Good. You know that I spend all day in my head right?" She smiled and said, "I know. We need to find you a harder job to get you out of your head."
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It sounds like she took it really well. It might be better to have it out in the open, that way you are both on the same page. Do you at least feel a little better knowing she accepted what was going through your head without taking it badly? It sounds like a tough situation, and you probably would have needed to say it at some point regardless of whether you wanted to, just to get it out. I think it's probably a good thing that you did, that way you won't be torturing yourself over it, at least as much.