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Originally Posted by puzzclar
I like your friend. ... but I think she reacted the best way she could with the information that was given. Don't let it get to you. It will all work out!
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Originally Posted by BadWolfC
It sounds like she took it really well. It might be better to have it out in the open, that way you are both on the same page. Do you at least feel a little better knowing she accepted what was going through your head without taking it badly? It sounds like a tough situation, and you probably would have needed to say it at some point regardless of whether you wanted to, just to get it out. I think it's probably a good thing that you did, that way you won't be torturing yourself over it, at least as much.
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Thank you both for your time and your reply. I think I feel better about it than I did before our second talk. I felt bad that I needed reassuring but I guess she understands that about me. She knows almost all of my weirdness and has continued to accept me. I think telling her my secrets took away their power so to speak. Things might be less fun at work now as far as leading me on to flirt with her. Part of me hopes that she reigns her part in because it would tell me that she cares and doesn't want to hurt me. On the other hand I will miss the fun but after the fun I was almost always left sexually frustrated. I still wonder if she actually understands that I want to "get in her pants" but I'm not going to make it any more clear to her than I already have. I think time will tell if our friendship is intact.
Thanks again for your replies. They were helpful.