Have anyone practiced abstinence? I've started this almost three years ago because I believed that it will help me with my career as a musician (and it really did), but now I left my band and have a girlfriend, with whom we tried to have sex a few times, but when we already were in bed and she asked to put it in, my erection was just gone. And the same thing repeated two more times...

I am not a virgin, I had a steady gf three years ago with whom we had regular sex. But with my current gf it seems impossible even though I really love her.

She wil come over to my house over this weekend. Perhaps YOu can give me an advice on what to do so that we got normal intercourse.

thx in advance!