Well thank you for your comments and maybe your right but personally if anyone would choose a drug over anything else in there life, is just sad. When you let something control your everyday actions and force you to hide your issue from others, it's morally wrong. I'm glad that my girlfriend is at least trying and she will have my support. I owe that too her.

If she would have told me in the beginning that she smoked marijuana I wouldn't have continued to date her and I would have told her then, because that's not my thing. I would have told her to find someone who was into that sort of thing but she didn't tell me until months later when I smelled it on her breath. That's when she came forward and told me. She hid the fact that she smoked it everyday until later. I was lead to believe it was an occasional thing because she was hiding it's control over her.

Smoking marijuana long term is not healthy for you. I'm not trying to control my girlfriend, I just gave her a choice. If she wanted to continue to have a relationship with me then she had to give that up. It was her decision to try and I'm thankful for that, that's all I could ask for, from her. If it works out, time will tell. I hope it does because she is awesome and we are awesome together. I would certainly be heart broken if she chose a drug over me but I would have to move on and continue my life.

Most people, just like you, only see the happy side and the mellow side of the drug. Go to a drug treatment facility or see kids in your neighborhood have there lives destroyed by drugs. Ask them how they got started into the drug life and I bet the majority of them say they started with marijuana and it lead to other, more harmful drugs that destroy lives. I personally lost a family member to drugs and where do you think it started? Marijuana, because they let down there morals and did something that was thought to not be all that bad, then something else wasn't all that bad, next thing you know, there trapped. It's a sad thing but unlike you. I am and have been effected differently by drug use so it's a different belief to me.