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Originally Posted by lonely-and-sad
^Exactly. It is because many people that have not had depression cannot understand that speeches and inspiring stories and youtube clips do absolutely nothing for the severely depressed except perhaps make them worse by thinking about what they missed out on in life. These people, having never suffered severe depression, honestly think that you stay depressed by surrounding yourself with gloom. Just get up, start doing things and making decisions and think positive thoughts! If only it were that easy ... Go back and have a closer look at the evidence.
It does depend a bit on the type of depression. Non-melancholic can often be cheered up to some degree. As well in atypical depression the person can be cheered up by good news etc. Even though the bulk of people have non-melancholic depression most of us here would have chronic depression and be of the melancholic type. That explains why the thread did not get a good response.
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You may be on to something but I'm willing to challenge your prospective on a healthy level. Yes, those who are severely depressed may not become happy after hearing "speeches, inspiring stories, and YouTube clips" but eventually, you go on to help yourself somehow, someway like being on this forum, going to your pdoc, tdoc, and going to cognitive behavioral therapy. I may not be able to relate to you with your struggles but I'm willing to bet that you want to live to see another and be happy. Don't we all want to be happy with life? I do. Don't you? I'm not a victim of my circumstances; I'm a fighter...so are you! =D
Now, we can agree to disagree and that is fine. I enjoy talking and helping people.