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Old Aug 14, 2015, 07:50 PM
Shadix Shadix is offline
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
No need to be in denial but what's the point of being angry if nothing could be done? Or something positive could be done? Instead of anger

What exactly did they do to you? What wrong actions are you referring to?

People did do me wrong. My house was broken into and robbed. Police couldn't find them. I did my part by reporting etc there is nothing I could do anymore. I've moved on. I am happy no one got hurt.

I was assaulted few times. Also nothing could be done. And I am glad I am alive

I was scammed. FBI and police can't find them. Nothing could be done. I do my part by educating others how to avoid being scammed and I work two jobs now trying to replenish my account

I was in a bad accident few months ago with my car totaled and me ending in a hospital. Got a new car. Glad I am alive

What's the point of being angry? What's done is done. Count your blessings as it could always be worse

What exact bad things are you referring to? And what do you do to improve your situation?

My grandparents survived holocaust and lost everyone. My grandpa lost his 8 sisters etc etc yet they lived their lives trying to do well and contribute to the betterment of society. They weren't angry or bitter. I know families who lost their kids in car accidents ( several of my students). Etc Etc I know many abused children. there is a lot of poverty abuse neglect etc in this world. I volunteer in homeless shelters. It's painful to see. I can go on. there is a lot of pain in this world.

What exact bad horrible things were done to you? What makes you do angry? What exactly do you do to better your own life? Or others lives?




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I faced bullying and social rejection from elementary school all the way through high school. I was constantly made fun of and not allowed to be socially integrated. I developed social awkwardness and self esteem issues and was never able to enjoy the fulfilling social experiences that others get to have.

However, the past is not the issue. The issue is that people are still very judgmental towards me, despite the fact that my issues were caused by THEIR behavior towards me in the past.

The reason I am angry is because I am still suffering. If I was able to pursue happiness freely, then there would be no need for me to be angry