If you say the issue is their behaviour towards you in the past then the issue still is the past.

I realize how pointless it is to keep replying to this. I dont think you want to give up your resentment. But know that you are not the only one who is suffering or has suffered or had harm done to them.

In some ways, I suppose, if this isnt getting through to you, it at least reminds me that I do have choice of how I move forward. I am not always accepted. I have not had a pretty past. But I do not want to live my life alone so I am finding those who do accept me. And I also accept them.

To be human is to accept ourselves just as we are, with our own history, and to accept others as they are.
- Jean Vanier