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Old Jul 19, 2007, 11:52 AM
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Ive been seeing my T for over a year now and still find it hard to talk to him, get upset or do anything other be in a child place just enjoy his company .

In the past few months i have been having group t/A and the lady who runs it is good offering contact if and when your eady for it, it has been somthing that i feel i have responded well to being able to come from a child place sat on the floor and have the contact has really helped me. i am able to say how i feel but often from a 3 yr old place.
My t doesnt do this you reamin in the adult and talk to himas an adult mantain eye contact. i really struggle with it i have got alot from him the consistancy and honesty and i like the guy i dont doubt he is a good t but maybe its just not for me

or am i finding it hard and am just running away? how healthy is it to spend your sessions as a child?do you grow out of it the group only runs till september

I have asked my t about sitiing on the flor i have said how i feel but he feels his way is the right way to go and i dont doubt he does think it is best

I havent had T/A before or had anyone that is happy with me coming from a child place so i dont know how helpful on the whole it is and if i found somene that would give me the same therpay indivually as i get in the group would that set me back. If you are a child in therpay do you naturally move on?

Stuck

Lucy
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