I've lost all interest in making friends near me. I moved to a new city a little over a year ago, and the only person I know is my fiance. He's kind of like me in the sense that he doesn't socialize much, but he at least has work friends. I have friends where I used to live, but I only talk to one of them on a regular basis. I just feel like there isn't a point in trying to make new friends, I only get along with certain types of people and there don't seem to be any here.
My fiance and I are moving again after we get married, and I hope it'll be better then... But I wonder if I'll still feel this way then too. I miss going out and doing fun things with friends, but at the same time I don't. Social situations are hard for me a lot of the time, and I think it's just not worth the stress to try and meet new people. I just don't know what to do... I feel like I should have friends because I used to be a lot more social than I am now, but I also feel like maybe that just isn't who I am anymore.
Can anyone else relate to this?
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