Hey there snap. I read your thread and I visited your other thread on the same topic in the other forum. I just wanted to say I am sorry. I do understand how hard it is sometimes to deal with our own sexuality and how others perceive that.

I was thought at a very young age that men were bad, and that they do bad things. That they are interested in one thing. My mohter was very wrong in bringing me up that way.

I am 41 by the way, and I have just began to embrace being female in the past 5 years. After T (T =Therapy) I learned that it was ok to be female. Due to sexual abuse I decided as a kid that being a girl was bad. If being a girl was bad, and being a boy was bad, then what was good. Nothing was. I was just bad.

Now that I have said way to much on that note, do you know what has made you feel this way. It sounds like a response that someone who has been sexually abused at some point would say or how they would feel.

I do agree with Em. Have you seen a T about this? Mine has helped me tremendously.
It has helped me to know why I have these ideas in my head that are not correct.

Sorry if all this is random and not really making since. It is late and my brain is behaving badly. It is is to confusing jsut have it omitted or don;t pay any attention to it.

Any how, welcome to PC. I hope this place helps you like it has me. It was also nice talking with you in chat this evening. Come on back to chat real soon.