They are at that wonderful age of preadolescence!! It might be difficult for away, but just realize that even though they do not listen like they used to they do still love you. They are probably very confused about what is going on in their own lives right now. Adolescence was very difficult for me and the more my mom pushed the more I pulled away. While you probably really want to hold them close it is important to give them their space or else the next few years might just get worse.
I wish you the best of luck....teenage girls are hard.

We are here,
Jessica