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Originally Posted by nessaea
I do appreciate it, and I think it's good for her to be really upfront with me if she can't help me, but I guess I'm just worried that it'll be a month from now, she'll decide she can't help me, and I'l have 1) gotten attached/feel connected to her and be a little hurt and 2) be left without support again, and have to go another couple years to try to find help.
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If you think she's worth the wait, that's one thing, but it concerns me a bit that you keep insisting how much you appreciate her behavior despite the fact that it's doing you some harm. By this stage, I wouldn't be appreciating it at all. I think you should be upfront with her about the fact you feel you need help now and that this waiting is making things worse for you.