Happyflower,

It seems that this is an important issue for you that you have done a lot of research on -- if I'm not prying, do you mind sharing why?

I just worry that people who read here for information or support might get the idea from the amount of posts on this subject that this is more of a common problem than it is and shy away from obtaining treatment that they need or worry about closeness in therapy that is perfectly appropriate and helpful.