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Cheating CAN be a symptom of unhappiness in some area of you life. No doubt there will be consequences. Why do you still want this other woman??? Does she make you feel like the knight in shining armor? What are your rewards for continuing on with her?
If you want to keep your wife - if she wants to hang in there, you need to find your rewards at home with her. Do the other lady a favor and let her go. She will figure it out. And then if you wife is willing to move on then do not look back or keep the thoughts of the other woman in your head.
Does is sound like I have been on one side of this or the other?????
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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