Jo the part that upsets us is not that she is going to school and working because at 19 that is what yo are supposed to do. What we resent is that she believes that we should pay for everything. Hair supplies clothes gas for her car etc. the car she is driving is ours we pay her cell phone bill that she abuses plus her car insurance and medical.

If she lived with us then no problem. But she wants to play house with her boyfriend then she can pay for her daily expenses. Has long has she gets good grades we will pay odd school.

Her boyfriend is the same age doesn't go to school and doesn't work has many hours has she's she does.