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sidony said:

I find myself angry on your behalf, wishing you could tell your mother to butt out! Certainly sounds like her emotional abuse hasn't ended yet.

I've heard many times that therapy often scares the people associated with you because of changes you learn to make from therapy. They have to learn to deal, and that's all there is.

I'm amazed that you'd consider taking a family member with you to therapy, but I'm not familiar with family therapy so maybe that's not an unusual thing to do. Even if I felt it would be helpful to bring my family members with me (as it is, my issues aren't with my immediate family), I wouldn't because I'm totally jealous of my therapist's attentions. That's just me.

Sorry things are so rough,
Sidony

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I really needed to read this tonight Sid. You are right on the money with what you said and I thought my T agreed with this too. Maybe I misunderstood him and he was just trying to help since I brought the email up in the first place...guess he's damn if he does and if he doesn't sometimes.