Ok, not to sound judgement myself but I saw somewhere the friend is Asian. Most Asian's I know of that are older come off a quick and to the point, so much so that it can be hurtful.

Then again saying that I know of other cultures that also are short and to the point. I also see this in some other Americans. I'm not saying she should get a free pass but I've lived outside of my own country once. It's funny how small things are seen as big things

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