Sidony. I have been struggling the last couple of days with one of my 14yr old daughters. I struggle to get close to her. The other day we kind of fell out with each other, and I was beating myself up for not handling the situation well.

Then I read before I went to sleep that evening, and its a story about intimacy and peoples struggles etc, then I dreamt I was in a room full of people and was having sex with my daughter!

I have NEVER had a dream like it, but thankfully I understood the meaning to that dream immediately. I am struggling with being intimate with her and of course this is setting of my own issues with the person I was at her age and my own struggle I had with my mother and sex just represented "intimacy" is all.

I;m glad it occured in my dream becaues I believe half our work is done in our sleep. Once the feelings are worked through during sleep, I find its easier to finish the job in our waking hours.