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Originally Posted by StbGuy
You may have a very sensitive clit. I've experienced something once where my penis was over-stimulated and I couldn't orgasm, it was during a blowjob. After an hour it became painful and it felt like my penis wanted to explode. It sounds like your clit might be over-stimulated perhaps. It works when you do it because you know how to touch yourself so you don't get over-stimulated.
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That's totally possible. Starting out, I had a lot of issues with it hurting whenever he even gently touched me. I'm so used to masturbating in only one way and in only one position that when I tried to teach myself how to do it in different positions it just ended up hurting or feeling uncomfortable.
But it also seems like I need a lot of stimulation to feel anything most of the time.
Is there any way around all of this? It feels empty to only have the option of masturbation to have an orgasm during partner sex. I mean, I wouldn't mind it some of the time, but I struggle to find a point of partner sex when I can give him an orgasm but he can't give me one. It feels unequal.