Hi Mouse,

Thanks for sharing your story. Dreams are so strange. Yes, I think I've equated sex with intimacy in my dream. But of course the bizarre thing is that I don't dream of having sex with my therapist with whom I am the most intimate. Makes no sense, but I guess dreams are like that. Or wait, maybe it does make sense, as I'm dreaming of sex with the person I haven't been able to be intimate with yet but would like to. Or at least I think I want to -- Half the time I'm torn about being in group at all and wonder what's the point in trying to get close to them. Even that's probably a clue about me though and I'll learn something in spite of myself....

I hope things get better with you and your daughter. I don't have kids, but I remember being 14! Awfully hard to connect with your parent at that age.....

Sidony