I live with my 22 year old son. Keeping the house clean is difficult because he just won't bend to my will!!!!!

I don't KNOW that things would be any better if I lived by myself, but it's really irritating that when I DO clean the entire house, how he'll just leave stuff all over. Or that I have to TELL him to do something otherwise it doesn't get done.

Saw the title of the thread and instantly thought of flylady, but even working that in is hard b/c I have to live around someone else. I've thought it might be nice to get an RV and just live alone.