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Originally Posted by ~Christina
Is he willing to get into Therapy and start working on the problems he is having?
Personally if a person wasn't willing to work hard to resolve stuff that has a direct effect on the relationship.. Then I would bow out and move on..
Loving someone doesn't guarantee that a relationship is healthy and means you should stay.
Have you talked about the tough stuff .. Do you want children? If so he also wanting one or more ?
If his outburst are causing you to feel suicidal , Well that is very serious. What does your Therapist have to say about his actions triggering thoughts of suicide in you?
You have many red flags in this relationship.. If you had a friend in this kind of situation what would you tell he/she?
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I had an appointment set up for us to go in together yesterday which he said he would go to, but backed out at the last minute because he said he was tol tired from work and emotionally not ready. He promised to go with me next week. Im going to address the emotional outbursts first and then the issue with his son he is oblivious to. I never thought it would be like this. I cant picture my life without him, but i see now how blind Ive been. i just read back through all my psych central posts from years ago ranting about the same issues and being hurt and lost. Maybe my relationship hasnt been as good as I thought. Im feeling very resentful right now.
Just this morning I tried to snuggle him before he left for work and he told me to stol touching him. The last thing he said to me was that he hated his job. Ugh!!