I took drivers ed from our football coach in high school, the last class of the day. After we passed his written tests, he'd test us in his own car - two at a time. He'd sit in the passenger seat, and one of us would drive him home. He'd run into the house to change into casual clothing while we waited in the driveway. When he returned, the other student drove us back to the school. The drive utilized all skills a driver would need, including narrow roads and highway driving.

He was a very friendly and popular coach, but we all knew not to test his patience. Having to drive HIS car was even more intimidating. NONE of us wanted to be known as the one who dinged up or ruined his car.

My father allowed me to practice using his car - a big Ford 500 - and we'd practice driving out to the woods and back. The main road was busy, four lanes total, with bumps and small potholes. To test my skill, he'd place his coffee cup on the dashboard as I navigated my way around the bumps, staying in my lane and away from the other drivers. It was highly intimidating because dad was the only "breadwinner" in the family and his was our only vehicle. As much as he loved me, I knew he'd be furious if anything happened to the car.

I got my license at the age of 16. When I took my official driving test, I was nervous but not the least bit intimidated - and I passed with flying colors.

Due to failing eyesight and illness, I can no longer drive. But in my 30 years of driving, I was never in a major accident and never caused any harm to any passenger or fellow drivers.

If your instructor yells at you, don't let him intimidate you - use it to your advantage. Maybe he just likes to yell at people to get out his own frustrations in life. Learn your lessons well and give him nothing to yell about over you. Do your best and see if you can get him to smile and say "Thank you. You've done well, and it's been a pleasure."