I too feel bad when I see this.

I've spent a lot of time concentrating on work this month...I wasn't staying focuses at work and was responding when I should be working. So my time spent here has slowed some...also, I'm being careful with anything marked with the trigger icon...at this time I'm not sure it would be healthy for me.

Sometimes...I just get so overwhelmed with the amount of new posts...I simply have them marked all read as it just puts me on overload.

I think there are a lot of reasons out there...I don't think any of you who feel ignored should worry too much about it...I know that it is hard...It is hard both ways though...