My T's mom died today. I found this out while I was looking at his Facebook... (don't judge me!) He hasn't said anything to me about it yet, but I wouldn't be surprised if my appointment for next week is moved. What do I say to him? If he never mentions anything to me should I just pretend like I don't know? I know that he is in charge of his own boundaries and can make decisions for himself, but I would feel guilty talking about my problems when his mother just died!

And now the selfish bit... I'm kind of afraid that the next few sessions will be a waste of time and money because he'll be grieving/thrown off. Ugh. I feel bad that I even think this.