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Old Aug 19, 2015, 03:30 AM
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Originally Posted by Rlaunch View Post
am thinking maybe it was a way to make her respect me. or a way to make me feel something, or maybe a way to feel how little i deserve as a person to my wife, for never being honest.
I dont know what caused it. i traumatized the person i love and she is locked in quarantine and know am in ruins.
Things could not continue the way they were and you did not yet have the skills to respond in a less hurtful, to yourself as well as her, way. Get some counselling and support for yourself and work it through. It is very painful and will take a lot of time to heal but it's worth it to try.
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