Sorry but the more i read the more excuses i see for your enabling of this manchild. YOU cannot be responsible for his happiness, outbursts whatever and the only person that can fix him is HIM. Get out before he destroys you more. YOU need to worry and care for YOU. I think you're afraid to be on your own. Maybe theres a financial side to it as well. Idk. Idk you or him. I am reading excuse after excuse for a mans bad behaviour a man old enough to know better. Sorry for being harsh.