I know I should just remember to care about my own emotions only. But here is the thing. In 2011 I had a therapist who worked at a hospital and I was referred to her by my family doctor.

Now she was perfect she listened to me and made me feel supported by her silence and it was great. And in the second session I talked about the sexual incident in question and it felt great and I was cured.

But alas I made more mistakes and talked about sexual incidents in front of my psychiatirst and family more and got scarred again.

So if a therapist gets uncomfortable it is not like anything else it just means that I don't get cured. I want someone who doesn't get uncomfortable and is non-judgementa so I get cured. that is basically it.