I think you have to be the one who says/insists the pain is there. I know it's really hard but you are the one in agony and you are the one who can describe it.

There are so many gyn things that can cause pain, from cysts (common), to mirena placement to the rare malformed tube that caused so much pain for me to so many other things. Even a change in how the hormones are affecting the thickness of the uterine lining can cause pain.

And I feel for you. Can you tell how much questioning of what was wrong with me I went through? I thought I had endometriosis (no), the cysts I didn't have, PCOS, a fibroid that was deeply embedded in the uterine wall rather than a polyp, the polyp was maybe so large it was causing friction, I don't know what else but I had so many things I thought it was because I thought if it wasn't one of them then I was making it up and I couldn't live with that. I was so sure that I really was making it up that I kept clinging to these random ideas hoping I was wrong and wasn't lying to myself and everyone. And finding the reason was the biggest relief.

There is a reason for your pain. They may be able to find it or not but just because they haven't doesn't mean it isn't there. There can even be cellular level changes that cause gyn pain. A pain management specialist may be in order and will have lots of ways to counter various types of pain.

Don't give up on yourself!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You matter!!!!