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Originally Posted by kanasi
My life has been inconsistent. Strangely I had my "closest" (relative term here) group of female friends in junior high after not being a hit with the girls for all of elementary. But as a general life pattern, although things definitely got better as I got older in terms of my social skills and comfort around people, I still found it difficult to make/keep female friends. Then there's this period after university where your guy friends start avoiding you too, because I guess it just "looks bad" to their girlfriends to be around you. *sigh* Sorry for the rambling. I think reflecting might be therapeutic for me or something.
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It's absolutely therapeutic for me! Rambling? Have you seen how long my posts can be
Things definitely changed after everyone started pairing off, but I was married when I was 21 and I guess I was 'safe' to be around because of it. All of the guys I was friends with were my husbands friends. I moved to a new area and knew no one. I met him and got married 7 months later- talk about impulsive (we divorced after 11 years and 3 kids)
Now who's rambling
