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Originally Posted by nija43
There's a situation in which I'm trying to figure out whether things are being done because of love or because of a subtle controlling being done by the other person.
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Is it manipulation or a way to push you in the direction they think will be better for you?
It can be very hard to find the line between those two ideas. But basically what I have found is that it is never a good idea to try to "control" another person. No matter how well-meaning the act was intended. It is better if the change comes about
from within rather than someone else's pulling of strings.