It took me a couple therapists to find mine but I'm so glad I did! I've only been with him for a few months and I've already progressed further than the years spent with my last therapists.

I'm similar to you-I have a very hard time trusting people and so people in the position he's in I often hold to the standard of perfection and don't allow any room for error. I used to be terrified he was judging me or just didn't care at all. Finally I just told him this and he and I had a great conversation that left me completely reassured! I highly recommend just talking to him about it!