OUCH!!!! WTF!!!!!!!!!!!

no offense, but ....darn....there are no smileys where one smiley knocks out the other smiley....

she's not good enough for you!!!!!!!!!!!! i'm sorry if this hurts your feelings - obviously you cared for her....but


"equal" ........her "equal" .........would you not be her equal if you had a back injury or some disease like MS that prevented you from working?? mental illness is no different....either you love someone completely or you don't

as for dating - good for you! i agree with saubu2!! get to know the girl and let her get to know you a bit first. i mean you don't want to wait so long that she feels betrayed but it's not first date chat either. i'm sure you'll know when to talk about it.

you may want to think of what to say about your working though....most people don't approach a new date and ask for a medical history...but "so what do you do" is generally a first-thing-ya-wanna-know bit of info. do you say your not working....your in between jobs....your taking some time off....??? i don't know....

i'm a female btw and currently working...although i've been through quite a bit in the past couple weeks and missed a lot of work....so i might be finding myself unemployed very soon!!! ugh....i hate jobs!!! like working....just hate jobs!!! and the bosses that go along with them!!!!

anyway - my point - i can't really speak from a not working experience....plus i never date anyway...so i'm really probably the complete WRONG person to be giving dating advice!!!!! oh well....that's what happens when you post on forums....never know what nut will respond!!!

i just read that whole "equal" thing and one of my loose screws fell out!!!!!

best of luck to ya!!!!!!!!!