Hey guys,
thank you so much for your responses!
I tried to talk to him on the phone afterwards, but somehow I couldn't get through to him.
The reasons that I was anxious for in the forst place had to do with a complicated situation with my boyfriend, my troubles finding a job an generally being stressed, but the therapist didn't ask why I was feeling so lost. He simply said something that I understood as cliché: "As long as your father has power over you, you will never feel comfortable in any relationship with a man". Which could be true, but I felt that it had nothing to do with my situation in the present. To the others I feel that he is kind of different, more understanding and I sense that he maybe feels offended my me because I got sexually abused by a male cousin when I was a kid and once expressed that in certain situations I was afraid of men. - It feels good to write this down. I would like to talk to him, but I am afraid to do so in front of the group and I am afraid to confront him and that what I am afraid of is true and that he truly resents me.
Thanks everybody