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Originally Posted by Sesiley
So...I have hypersexuality. But I have severe cravings of being controlled...BDSM. I guess maybe it's bc it feels like someone REALLY cares.....I crave attention as well. I feel like an attention wh@re. I am. I'm a receiver, not a giver too....I just don't understand this.
Also, my husband doesn't do this kind of "need". So, I constantly think about my needs. I have told him before to. No luck.
I have had many separations bc of this. I had found my needs elsewhere, but I always go back to my husband bc I love him...I don't want to hurt him anymore....
What do to u think?
Any suggestions?
How do you feel about or what do you see?
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I have a female friend who is in a similar situation, only she's a pure domintrix with a lot of dark fantasies and a bisexual and her boyfriend is a pure beta who won't sate that side of her so they have an agreement to let her seek her sexual needs on other guys /girls as long as she makes him the priority.
I also am a dom with minor tendencies to sub in the BDSM department so I would feel trapped in a relationship with somebody who isn't into those types of things.
Maybe communicate with your SO? Tell him your needs and come to some sort of agreement like my female friend did?