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Originally Posted by lovethesun
Just bought a coupon book from neighbor across the street (neighbor #1) a couple weeks ago to support her child's fundraiser. Now the other neighbor's daughter (neighbor #2) 2 doors down is selling a coupon book for her fundraiser. This is also the same neighbor I've had disagreements and a bit of a falling out with in the past year. And neighbor #2 sent a group message asking us to purchase the fundraiser thing so if I decline I look like a you-know-what to the other neighbors on the message. Am I obligated to purchase from Neighbor #2 fundraiser? Should I just make a donation? Or just say "No"?
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You are never obligated to do anything. However, are you feeling as though you want to mend the bridge with that neighbor? If you are, you could make a donation at least, but that doesn't mean the neighbor will view it the way you intend it. You can say no either way.