No I don't ask women out. I guess I was frustrated because I think she could do better - but that's judgmental and I don't really know this guy. Maybe he's a fantastic lover. Anyway I'm still dealing with a huge insecurity issue when getting close to people - the problem is I could be in a nursing home before I get to the point where having somebody else around is okay. I know I'm being a defeatist but I'm real comfortable being a solo act. Also I just don't have the energy I used to so getting aggressive is harder now. All excuses I know but I've been doing this for a long time.