It's so easy to judge someone when we don't understand them, and maybe when they trigger us in some way. I've done it myself and I'm not proud of it I think all of us here are doing the best we can. Let's not assume someone is trying to hurt us intentionally if we don't like their words (it's so easy to read meanings into text words that might not be there) or that they want to hurt us if they make a mistake. If we really can't get on with or tolerate someone there is of course the "ignore button" which isn't a perfect solution. I would like it if everyone looked for the good in everyone else, it's there (almost always). But maybe I'm "stupid" and "naive".

(If anyone doesn't like this opinion feel free to ignore it. Personally I hate conflict.... life, especially my life, is too short )

I've been blamed, abused, and scapegoated by "family" IRL which I guess is why I dislike being "judged" so much (who doesn't dislike being judged though)

I hope this isn't against the rules or inappropriate, my intention is not to cause any negativity or hurt. So please just remove it if it's not seen as helpful (and I won't try to use words much again )

This is not directed at any one individual, it's my opinion based on decades of "life experience"