Wow.

I'm honestly blown away how you were so completely blind to the fact that women have the same issues.

It's how most of the conversations in here go... things work very much the same for BOTH GENDERS.

Insecurities and feelings of not being good enough are rampant amongst both genders. People feel like they are too ugly frequently. People are frequently too shy to initiate contact.

That goes for both genders.... how could you seriously not know that? It shows up in soooooo much media - books, movies, tv shows, forums, everywhere.

Especially with women!

How many movies are there... usually romantic comedies.... where the less-appealing guy ends up with a really hot woman? Who he doesn't notice at first because she isn't dressed sexy and doesn't look attractive? There are SO MANY of those out. Yet.... if you look for movies where there's a less-appealing female.... who gets a really hot man? Not really any out there.