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Aug 20, 2015, 01:14 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: Ontario Land
Posts: 3,592
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Originally Posted by PinkFlamingo99
I think the difference between your story and mine though is that she was my therapist... I mean, our relationship should have been in control enough that my safety was at least considered a priority. It's different in a friendship.
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Yes, but therapists still have to recognize when they are hurting their clients. They are obligated to fix it (ethically), not by mothering, etc... A client's needs come first.
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Originally Posted by PinkFlamingo99
Plus everything was "fine" and then all of a sudden she hurt me when I was physically ill.
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Are you sure about that? A therapist who wouldn't let you discuss your self-harm indicates to me everything wasn't fine. She should have addressed it immediately and referred you to someone who could have helped you.
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I feel like I was too dependent and that's what caused this. I'm afraid I look borderline.
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I think someone with BPD fears abandonment, because they don't know who they are when they are not around others.
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