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Originally Posted by Komfortable
Have you surrounded your heart with concrete walls?
A woman I have begun to fall in love with has very thick walls built up. I haven't quite figured out why, but she is good at keeping a calculated distance. It is terrifying. I'm scared that she will never love me, or at some point she will get too scared and run off.
Has anyone ever taken the time to break down your walls? How did they go about it? What would you suggest for someone in my position?
She has my heart. All I want is for her to let me in. Just a little.
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If you're not even with this person yet, I am not honestly sure it should be as much work as you're saying here. I mean if she had walls up after you were together, I'd be all for working on tearing them down but honestly? find someone that is ready for a relationship and wanting that with you and pursue them. there are far too many people out there for you to waste your days trying to break through to a heart that is keeping you at arm's length.