I agree, that would be a ghastly idea.


My daughter would be just another child, my bf would just be an orgasm generator...


What an empty and pointless existence that would be for me.


I wouldn't even feel human.


I've had to deal with quite a few emotional atrocities, a paedo brother, an abusive exbf, a murdered beloved eldest brother, a doting father who wished himself to death... Add bipolar and BPD to that and its been one heck of a ride for me.


Yes, it would've been nice to be spared all of that, but at the price you mentioned?


No thank you, my challenges have contributed to the woman I am today, and they have colored my world instead of tainted it.

Even if it doesn't always feel or seem that way.


In life you have to take the good the bad and the ugly, or you'll never learn appreciation, gratitude or humility.