My sister is dating a married man right now who has been telling her he's going to leave his wife for the past year now and he claims he's only with his wife because of the medical insurance. He can tell my sister how much he loves her all he wants, but who's he going to bed with every night? His wife. She's being played and she believes him. He has no intention of leaving his wife.

I was talking to a cop once (we were in the very beginning stages of just starting to flirt, hadn't even gone on one date yet) and he told me that he was getting a divorce from his wife who was abusing him. Something clicked and I immediately remembered that was the same cop who was hitting on me two years ago who told me the same exact story then. Not sure how I could have forgotten that, but I did. Right after he told me that, I said "No thanks, that's what they all say!" and didn't talk to him again.

A woman who willingly stays with a married man, does not love or respect herself enough to NOT be "the other woman". I would be overwhelmed with jealousy if my "boyfriend" went back to his wife after our dates, I'm definitely not cut-out for that kind of "relationship".