View Single Post
 
Old Aug 20, 2015, 08:02 PM
divine1966's Avatar
divine1966 divine1966 is offline
Legendary Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Dec 2014
Location: US
Posts: 23,230
I wasn't angry or scared. Yes i had growing to do in regards to my relationship with men and finances. That's why I started therapy. I know I showed growth over the year. My t says growth starts with awareness. I am very much aware why I had specific issues.

My t is flexible. She doesn't need to be more flexible. My relationship with her didn't change. I don't see how and why it would or why it has to.

My therapy has nothing to do with boundaries and consistency. My therapy is about me discussing issues with my t and learning to stop attracting unavailable men and fixing my finances.

She never emphasized any boundaries. It was never brought up. I am not sure what you mean by consistency.

I am almost 50 year old professional woman, not a child, I can't imagine crossing any boundaries with my t. Like what? What could it be?

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk