awwwww hmm control freak??? hope he realises that he needs to loosen up a little. the only way i managed to get my boyfriend to let me do what i want was to give him the boot... which in the end he was so adamant on changing i took him back. he actually has, which i wasnt expecting. but, it is not a good idea to wave around the idea of divorce with people. doesnt make for a loving relationship. hope it works out
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self