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Originally Posted by kanasi
My life has been inconsistent. Strangely I had my "closest" (relative term here) group of female friends in junior high after not being a hit with the girls for all of elementary. But as a general life pattern, although things definitely got better as I got older in terms of my social skills and comfort around people, I still found it difficult to make/keep female friends. Then there's this period after university where your guy friends start avoiding you too, because I guess it just "looks bad" to their girlfriends to be around you. *sigh* Sorry for the rambling. I think reflecting might be therapeutic for me or something.
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Thank you so much for sharing that and don't apologise it is therapeutic so don't apologise for venting how you feel honestly it's partly why i made this thread to see how it made people feel being in social situations so i can be more understanding to my ADHD friends and anyone else i meet in my life with it. I understand that it may come across as you're a threat to the guys girlfriends but maybe just reassure them and say that you're just friends.
Thank you again
Claire