Hi all,

I'm in my mid twenties and have been pretty much sexually abstinent for my whole life (although I have a high sex drive and have masturbated almost every night for a while). I'm currently dating someone who also has a high sex drive but I almost always finish before she is close to orgasm.

It's so frustrating and I feel like there is something wrong with me. I enjoy sex alot and we do it often but it's almost never good for her unless she's ontop controlling the movement. Is there anything I can do? She likes it rough and that's hard because the faster/rougher it is the quicker I orgasm. I've tried stopping before I feel it coming and squeezing the tip, aside from sex therapy or meds I don't know what to do.

PLEASE help.