Hmm -

From my experience (from friends that did this) - 98% of these types of meetings do not work out and some of them even place the other person in physical danger.

And - only 1% of them - Work out, if just for the short run.

Please think long and hard before you do any thing, or worse yet get talked into going over to where he is...... one of my friends did this (against my protest) and she was lucky to get out a live with in 30 days of arriving - she went to Germany and he was far from how be betrayed himself on line.