I agree with what I'm Worth It said. I'd like to add that it seems as if your husband is confiding in these people as if they are therapists or counselors. A psychotherapist or doctor or minister or other professional that you might tell about details of your private life offers you confidentiality. Their profession prohibits them from telling others what you tell them.

Also, you usually are not personal friends with a therapist, etc. If you were, you could not see them for therapy.

There are people that are qualified to hear the intimate details of your husband's life if he needs someone to talk to about them. The two friends you've described are not qualified.